“It is only with the heart that one can see rightly. What is essential is invisible to the eye.”
— From “The Little Prince”
by Antoine de Saint-Exupéry
A few weeks ago on Twitter, the writer Susan Orlean started the topic #booksthatchangedmyworld. The topic became hugely popular within seconds and is still active. Mostly fiction titles were mentioned, although non-fiction books, such as, “Toxic Parents,” “The Joy of Cooking,” and “The Joy of Sex” were popular, too.
I added a few of my own, but the titles that came to my mind were children’s or young adult lit: “Where the Wild Things Are” by Maurice Sendak and “Are You There, God? It’s Me, Margaret” by Judy Blume.
I could fill a few pages with a list of the books I love or books that affected me in a deep way, but the books that changed my life are mostly books I read when I was young.
Today, I thought of a book that bridges the gap. “The Little Prince” by Antoine de Saint-Exupéry, is a children’s book that I read as an adult and it changed my life.
It was written as a children’s book, but its ideas of open-mindedness, curiosity, and exploration have a lot to teach adults who might have grown up and away from those child-like traits that keep the world new and exciting.
There are two parts that changed my world and have stayed with me since reading the book for the first time 15 years ago. One is about our responsibility toward others. The fox tells the Little Prince, who has fallen in love with a rose:
“Men have forgotten this truth, but you must not forget it. You become responsible for what you have tamed. You are responsible for your rose.”
The second lesson is the quote at the beginning of this post. It’s the fox speaking to the Little Prince again. “What is essential is invisible to the eye.“
Reading that in the simplistic terms, the fox is saying the eye doesn’t see what matters most, it only sees what’s on the surface, but it goes beyond that. It taught me that it’s important to dig deeper. By examining, exploring, and questioning, I could learn what is essential to me, what matters most. That lesson is something that changed my world in incalculable ways.