For Father’s Day, I want to write about great fathers in literature.
The first one who comes to mind is Atticus Finch, from “To Kill a Mockingbird.”
Great dad. He is honest, ethical, compassionate, and he teaches his children these qualities by example, by his actions and decisions, rather than by rote.
After Atticus Finch, there’s … ummm. There’s, uh… Hmm.
Okay, let’s talk about bad dads. There are plenty of those.
- Bull Meecham from “The Great Santini” by Pat Conroy, is a tyrannical and dangerous father, whose abuse severely damages his family and nearly destroys them all.
- In Shakespeare’s “King Lear,” the King’s pompous ego and his favoritism of Cordelia over her sisters, leads to her murder and his.
- Willy Loman from “Death of a Salesman” by Arthur Miller, misleads his sons on lessons of life and love. He is so deluded about his own success and his life, that his death is not a tragedy so much as it is an epic failure.
- Disney Dads, like those of Cinderella, Sleeping Beauty, Belle, Ariel, and Jasmine, are either absent or too hapless to do anything for their daughters.
All right, this isn’t the optimistic sunshiny Father’s Day tribute I had envisioned, and I’m finding it a little depressing that fathers are not very well represented in books. So, I’m going to wrap this up and go make myself a Father’s Day margarita in honor and in memory of a true classic, Manny Tejeda, my Dad, who was not absent, hapless, deluded, egotistical, or tyrannical.
He taught me by example; he was honest, ethical, kind, generous, and funny-funny-funny. He was tough, too. Some of his expectations were more than I could achieve, or so I thought back then, but everything … all of it, was wrapped in knowing, absolutely, that he loved me. Like all good classics, his influence lives on.
Happy Father’s Day!
Can you help a daughter out? I’d love to list more good literary fathers, but I can’t think of any and would love some input. He doesn’t have to be from the classics or popular fiction. I’ll take anything at this point. Dads deserve it!